Since my divorce, some people are having a hard time knowing what to say to me, but not you, e Harmony. Be patient, look carefully, and always take your time when getting to know someone.
Keep your profile positive and you soon will be attracting all sorts of potential partners.
Actually, my mother chastises me for dating men of modest means.
And, to be honest, meeting a guy who makes six figures makes me think, There is no alternative to going online to meet someone in your 50s.
Be strategic about picking a username: In this situation, sex doesn’t sell. Hoehn suggests puns and clever wordplay (Last Man Camping for an outdoorsman, for example); pop culture references (Not Bradley Cooper or No Sleep Since Brooklyn); or just something silly and absurd (Birds With Shoes). As comfortable in old jeans as you are in heels and a dress? Do you like cuddling by a crackling fire and long walks on the beach? Focus on you: Everything you say in your profile should be about you. Tell the world why rather than explaining what Buddhism is about. How are your conservative values reflected in the way you live? You want it to sound like you’re chatting over coffee, not presenting your resume. People probably won’t read a long profile, and you’ll come across as self-absorbed and like you might be the dreaded first-date blowhard.
Instead of just labeling yourself as an introvert, talk about what that means to you, specifically. Be conversational and concise: Try reading your profile aloud. Be positive and confident, not hangdog or cocky: Talk about what you do like, not what you don’t.